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Is there anyway to recover posts from the past?

Araz wrote:
I searched for my name in the old posts ๐Ÿ˜ฑ So many things I forgot about / was tagged in and never saw. Some things left best unseen, I think! This site can be a fresh start for some.

where did you search? i cant see a search option and im curious to see what highschool me was posting about

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Okay Jebus, just for you, I came back.

Aria wrote:
Yup, I did. You might remember me as Grace. We communicated through FB for a little while, but I did a couple of sweep-outs over the years and lost contact with a few people through there.

Ahhhh I remember you too as Grace! its so nice reconnecting with everyone!

Hi Nyx, not sure if youll remember me as i joined about 8years ago so not long before you say you left.

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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

Ambereyes wrote:
Theres nothing I can say different than what everyone else said, other than the best advice I have ever received. "Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm".

Look after yourself first, you should love and show yourself the priority that you would show someone else. After 4 months, this many red flags should be a sign of things to come.

Thank you amber, i know and this is why i tought it right to raise it with people and get some opinions. im sure mine will be slightly biased as always with these situations but i try not to be. good adivice though, but i know ive gone against that many times and very much got burned which i suppose is another reason im able to see it happening this time

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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

Evansent wrote:
Yep it's 50/50.
Time will tell.๐Ÿ˜Š

i know but i dont want to waste time on sometihng that might never work. fingers crossed in 3weeks he'll be out and ill have been able to think clearly without him being here and see where things are at!

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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

Rockster160 wrote:

ProffVampy wrote:
i know mental abuse is equally bad but i am strong mentally (for the most part anyway) having already gone through alot and having positive working coping strategies.

Being strong is not an excuse to suffer abuse of any means.

i know, and if it got to the point of suffering then again i would take mor edrastic measures. other than stress ontop of uni its not bad at the moment.

Evansent wrote:
vampy I think once this man gets help then things just might change. The question is when the help will come and it's not right you having to wait about and deal with whatever issues he has. Let's just hope he gets a room soon.

i agree and thats how i feel, but theres also that feeling of once its sorted i think it could be something good but i think that bridge will burn before we're at it

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Perfect timing for me to need some advice...

well ive told him that once he gets paid he needs to have found somewhere - we are going to look at some rooms on thursday. he gets paid at the start of the month so then he has no excuse not to go and ill dump his stuff myself if he doesnt. i only just moved into this flat after leaving my ex and theres only just enough room for my things let alone his (its not a small flat i just have an obscene amount of stuff....the shoe habit is real). its not currently unpleasant apart from when we argue. hes not showed any signed of physical violence yet and i know better than to stand for that and was a cause of one of my teenage breakups so if it got to that he would be out the door instantly with no guilt on my side whatsoever. i know mental abuse is equally bad but i am strong mentally (for the most part anyway) having already gone through alot and having positive working coping strategies.

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Okay --- who is still missing?

Rockster160 wrote:

ProffVampy wrote:
i have messaged legion if anyone remembers him! he seemed excited so will hopefully be back soon! :)

I remember him- I don't think I interacted with him as much though.

i had him on facebook, going through some old email notifications to see if theres anyone i remember that hasnt been mentioned! it was so ong ago im sure i've forgotton some

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Hint time.

i have already used it for both :P

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Okay --- who is still missing?

i have messaged legion if anyone remembers him! he seemed excited so will hopefully be back soon! :)

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Hint time.

@Rockster160 i am very much liking the tagging ability. easier than quoting things! dont remember it being on the old site!

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