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What's the best way to deal or accept people disliking you as a result of ignorance?

@OP story of my life.. secretly deep down they want you to like them and they'll hate you for it. the math does not compute. they're stupid. so have fun with it.

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as the page rotates.

way ahead of yall, i passed on to the next plane of misfitdom. off to annoy the neighbors with my guitar talent for bad music.

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looking back.

in my case its quite a bit complicated.. i grew up with profound hearing loss. sure i could talk and all but when it came to catching on the joke or tease.. that moment of embarrassment would rise.

I pretended like i understood when i didn't because i couldn't hear it. It made me feel stupid, helpless and thus humiliated. they would laugh at me cuz i came off as this easy target for a bright red walking cherry pop!, for them it was harmless but for me nowadays makes me wonder.. what good was it, i didnt learn a damn from it except tune out my natural feelings. I should of gotten upset, i did few times but not enough to make a point about what i need from them to understand whats the point of teasing if im not gonna get it..

laughing it off would probably benefit me greatly if i understood in the first place. who the hell laughs at something you dont get, only blondes do!

when the internet was born and chat rooms..instant messaging .. texting came around.. made all the difference understanding the horrible humanity of humor.

i guess what im saying is the impact out of it all while growing up kinda set me back in a big way.. like a lingering after effect that i could really do without. Its not exactly traumatic, but i really think it played a part in why i have confidence issues. it doesn't end there tho on the other hand i just might be over analyzing it so help me god.

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So I've started writing a new thing...

hey padre it was a pleasure to read.. kinda reminds me of the duchy of Richmond we once ran with. the story doesn't end there from my ***pov.

basically .. its a neat segment of a bigger tale obviously.

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thought it was funny and awesome at the same time..

:)

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well said..

cant say i've never been so spent on trying to help some of those radical neg folks.. wound up fixing their sadness for a day but they always come back for more. it was like a drug to them. after so long i sorta gave up to my shame, we shouldn't lose faith on people.

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looking back.

everyone was a teaser.. i didnt get it at the time.

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dont copy n paste

@soco haha, nah.. it was a reference how fb is corrupt with sharing and memes. how i miss the old fb days

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That rabbiiiit!

yea that one

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That rabbiiiit!

sorry i would play along all cute n all.. but as a music fan.. all i can think of is the rabbit song by the jeffersons.. smh so help me god

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