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I get conflicting information when searching, but what do you think is the best top 10 States for a child with autism and other disabilities (he's a severe asthmatic with severe eczema and allergic to

Arizona, Nevada, New Mexico, Utah, (and some parts of Texas).
As Smiley said, the desert is a good place because it is hot and sterile.
The desert can also be cool and there is plenty of privicy and open spaces to be free in.
All my best.

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i'm losing my home.

All good things come to an end....
It's time for a change.
Just remember - a house is only a house, it is YOU who are the home.

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How do you post videos?

How are things working out JN? Did you get your You Tube account straightened out?

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Soo...I'm 36 years old.

I've been thinking about this for a little while.
The main concern I have is your current state of affairs.
You're remenescing about the past. This usually happens when you reach a low point in your life.
How are things going for you now?

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How to stop stress?

It's time to find a girlfriend....

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Floccinaucinihilipilification

Mya wrote:
- okay, okay, i know i don't deserve anything good; and oh so many people would love to see me entrapped..! :/

Don't quite know why you would say that. Don't you deserve goodness? Why would you feel entrapped?

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How to stop stress?

Determine what the original source of stress is and deal with it.
People tend to run away from their problems and do everything to outrun what they need to take care of.
But the problem never goes away and the stress only gets worse.

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Floccinaucinihilipilification

Mya wrote:
Thanks, Bot, i'm not married..! ;)

- The key word is "yet."

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Can a bank take your newer car days after purchasing it?

There are more important things to worry about than 'losing your car.'
At this point, if something is amiss, you may be entitled to a refund of your $500 down payment.
Even though you will keep us informed as to how things are going, there remains questions and comments to be made...
Question: Did you finance through the dealership OR your own financial instuitition?
In many cases a dealership will contract with a specific bank for every dirty reason in the book - the illusion of a better deal (a quick commission for the salesman) and their bank also welcomes yoh as a potential client or (at very least) a high-interest rate paying consumer.
The deal on the contract under those circumstances will never favor you because it's all about paying heavy penalties. To trap you into default (the dealership hopes) so they can resell a car. The bank covers them under guise or repo'ing your car (but banks are banks and not car dealerships - where will the car end up....? You guessed it).
The loan is never about you - it's about a gig between the bank and the dealership.
This is why it's important to qualify for a loan at the institution of your choice.
The dealership is "taken care of," and the contract is between you and the bank (which holds the title until the car is paid off). Terms are generally made clear before signing the contract. Amendments can sometimes be made but not only for the sake of the bank - there must be reasonable welfare of the consumer involved.

Learn what the difference is between a bank and a Credit Union. Credit Unions are generally better than banks in every way - they take better care of their clients.

Also....look at life with a realistic perspective. Do you need to finance a candy bar? (Don't say "no" if you're paying for it with a credit card).... When you chose to use your credit card instead of cash you ARE saying "I want to pay more for this." Credit cards are never your friend - there is no reason to possess your credit card if you are unemployed MUCH LESS if you are employed. Learn to honestly discipline yourself and learn the value of spending cash (otherwise, you're just a digit).

So, no....you don't finance a candy bar because you typically (should) buy those items with cash. When you BUY a candy bar, you own it.... But when you qualify for a loan to possess a car, the only thing you own is a payment.

People are so brainwashed it has taken over their language and the way they talk, act and think.

When you tell me you bought a car, you are telling me you own it - show me a Title. If you can't, you neither bought the car nor are you the owner....(it's just talk, completely unrelated to the claim).

There is an old saying, "The borrower is a slave to the lender," and that's a fact.
If you work for money, it's already being taxed (sadly, what you understand as money isn't money at all, but that's a different story). There is more freedom to have a little bit of money than a lot of debt.
Why destroy your freedom to be a slave to debt - it's a deliberate choice to do that.
Credit destroys freedom (your hard earned savings) and enslaves you (chaining you to interest).
If everyone conducted their financial world back to cash savings, inflation would drop like a rock and respect would rise.

Kill the bank(s).

Just some things to think upon for the sake of your future.

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post closed....thank you

~CaraMia~ wrote:
Oh HelpBot....stuff a sock in it.....

Look out HelpBot! She's wearing steel-toe boots!๐Ÿ˜‹

(My all your memories of dad be fond). You're not alone.

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