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If I gave you

I would say 'no,' because when you ask,

"would you do the same for me as I would for you,"

pre-supposes the fact that you DO expect something in return.

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Is this weird?

Anon Post wrote:
I went to a self defense class the other day and I enjoyed it.

Good for you!

Anon Post wrote:
But the more he was teaching us the more attractive he became.

....to you. In reality, he didn't look any different before you began class than afterward.

Anon Post wrote:
the more I kicked him, the hotter he became.

...Emm, no.... The more you worked out, the more aroused you became.

Anon Poster wrote:
But the more I kicked or blocked him, the cuter I thought he was and I liked it.

That's more like it, and you should understand what the differences are. I believe a lot of his female students, past and present, have felt the very same way - he sounds like a very handsome gent.

Anon Poster wrote:
The eye contact was strong but we were observing each otherโ€™s movements.

Well, you did say his eyes were pretty, but I think he was looking at your eyes to see where you would be looking to strike next - it's a defense combat technique.

Anon Poster wrote:
Maybe I felt something?

I don't know.

Anon Poster wrote:
I donโ€™t know.

Weird.

Anon Poster wrote:
But is that weird?

Maybe.

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How do you help a depressed spouse?

Yorick wrote:
yay for yo hubby

PepperJ wrote:

Araz wrote:
Update: He interviewed for a job on Monday and got it! He started this past Tuesday and is already feeling much better.

Yay! Three cheers!

Three!

(Lifts glass, gives wink and a momentary support of alcoholism-)
Cheers!
!!Aahh!!

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I don't care who you are, or what reason you have, if I bring you money to buy a cake and you don't want to sell me a cake, I'm just going to punch you in your face.

We reserve the right to refuse service to anyone for any reason or no reason at all....

I don't "have" to do a goddamm thing regarding your desire especially if the business you're visiting and the roof you are under belong to me.

Anon Post wrote:
I don't care if you're black, gay, straight, in a wheel chair, the president of the United States, the hero of the most recent war, my old dear sweet english teacher....

--yeah,yeah....
No sense in shrouding yourself at this point, not when we all know what the "cake" issue revolves around.
You see.....you think it's about you, what you have, what you're willing to trade, based on what you are - this is partly true but only part of the picture.
The other part may very well be what my conscience will knowingly allow me to do based on my faith (or religion).
You seem to forget - I do have competitors.... If you don't like the fact I have refused you, give your business to my competitors.
....Punch me all you like, you'll go to jail for assault, end up owing me tens if not thousands of dollars AND you will still get nothing from me....
Next!

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How To Bathe A Cat

https://youtu.be/jQZtk-fCWQ4

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Have you read the TIME article about millennials and depression?

Araz wrote:
Have you read the TIME article about millennials and depression?

....emm, no, but it seems to have gained your interest.

Araz wrote:
What do you think?

I clicked the link and read the article. First, I don't like the journalism - it's neither complete or serious.
I also find discrepancies that are in the key of oxymoron. If not then, what is obvious becomes stark - if there is an increase in alcohol consumption, it follows that alcohol related deaths will occur....? Same story with drugs of ANY sort (prescription or street).
A continued upswing in the trend of suicide - consider the source (the fashion and glamour of suicide).
I could list a lot of facts at this point but it would be a waste of words and time.
How much do you want to talk about the symptoms and not the root of the matter?
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Let me give you an example...
It's been said there is a "gap" between the generations, but it's far worse than that - the communication between generations is broken beginning at the generation level itself.

I recently came across a woman whose son just graduated from high school. She says he can't write in cursive because (at the time) the school stopped teaching cursive. Hence he's a product of the system.
Odd....he's a victim of his parents. My mom taught me to both read and write BEFORE I officially entered school. My reading and writing tested out at a 7th grade level when I was in the first grade.
I'm no genius - BUT, I AM a testament of what the AVERAGE human is capable of achieving once it is firmly held to the standard, however, this must be dealt with during the formative years.
The value of NOT pressing your child is not a value at all and people need to sort out the guilt of their own personal "sin(s)" in order to maintain academic pressure so the kid can be properly skilled at a level he or she is capable of accomplishing.
Tears are no excuse for failure.
(Now, hold on)
Did the system fail this young man or did his parents? It seems as though he could already print - it's not as if he didn't know the alphabet....how hard would it have been to teach him to write in cursive?
(Hold on) - but no....Life for these parents went on in nonchalant, blissful ignorance. When are you going to understand that YOU are FULLY responsible for educating your child(ren).?
(Ready?)
....You (meaning anyone/everyone) live life as if your faults don't need to be pointed out for fear of hurting your 'feelings'. Further, as if you don't need to actually do something about them.... But, we now live in a society where-by calling out the exact problem is deemed as a criminal act because it offends you.....?
Your goddamm feelings aren't the only value by which you are measured as a worthwhile human. What are your life-skills?
As an older generation of people go, we no longer correct mistakes or solve problems, but (instead), live with and tolerate the stunted horse$hit results with grand tyrannical silence.
You're dumb and blind....
There are only 2 genders - remember them good ole days? Seems there was a boy for a girl and a girl for a boy and people were happier and more connected....
But, someone wanted to "legally" increase the base definition of what gender is. So what do you think the result of that is? Seems like you're NOT finding your proper mate....and time has a way of marching on - it will leave you behind wether you're paired up or not. And now you're isolated. Life sucks and you're depressed.
If you want one moment of happiness, then, grow up and face what it is to live single because a natural meaning can, at least, be found in that - which is far better than the supposed 'options' have to offer. Otherwise, who cares what you like or don't like.
What? Don't like that? Then work more hours and dole the money to your weekly psycheatric sessions. Or medicate yourself or kill yourself....(does this sound like the common themes, now?)
Also, we all have a spiritual nature which is very real - betray or neglect that nature and see what you get.
To believe in God and entertain thoughts of a spiritual nature does not necessarily entail "religion."
The same $2 dollar professor who taught you that life is all about you seems to have also taught that religion is a poison and therefore your belief/faith in God is a toxic thing that must be lobodomized from you.
You don't like the symptoms of your circumstance....but you still insist avoiding the issues of life where-by things are made better.
If you can't fall in line naturally, then do what you are told, otherwise, the wheel keeps turning and it gives no thought to grinding you up where the gears meet.

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How do you help a depressed spouse?

It's good to hear that he has scheduled an appointment - that's a bold move and I give him kudos.
I'm glad you like the poem. Surprised you have not read it, considering it's popularity. All the same, i'm glad to have brought it to you.
May both of your spirits be at peace and relatively happy.

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How do you help a depressed spouse?

A little poem we're all familiar with to remind us that life is not free of incident, yet, the course of events should not always determine our attitude.


Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

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How do you help a depressed spouse?

Remind him who you are.
His wife.
A friend and business partner didn't marry him.
You are there for him and have sound judgement.
Plus, you love him.

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To the world:

Just close your eyes....

https://youtu.be/r4KVaau0JdY

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