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Is there something wrong with me? I went to a self defense class the other day and I enjoyed it. There was only a few of us attending the class. We worked with partners as well as did one on ones with the instructor. I’m not sure what it was. But the more he was teaching us the more attractive he became. He had the prettiest blue eyes. Well, we worked on blocking as well as kicking. He put this padded suit like thing in front of him and told me to kick him as many times as I could. Maybe it was the strong eye contact. But the more I kicked him, the hotter he became. Is that weird? I don’t know what to think of this. Like I’m usually a quiet, shy person. But the more I kicked or blocked him, the cuter I thought he was and I liked it. Maybe it was playful to me. But, at one point, he was coming after me and wanted me to block him and I couldn’t help but giggle a little. The eye contact was strong but we were observing each other’s movements. I haven’t been able to stop thinking about him since that class. Maybe I felt something? I don’t know. But is that weird.

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Is this weird? Is there something wrong with me? I went to a self defense class the other day and I enjoyed it. There was only a few of us attending the class. We worked with partners as well as did one on ones with the instructor. I’m not sure what it was. But the more he was teaching us the more attractive he became. He had the prettiest blue eyes. Well, we worked on blocking as well as kicking. He put this padded suit like thing in front of him and told me to kick him as many times as I could. Maybe it was the strong eye contact. But the more I kicked him, the hotter he became. Is that weird? Like is that my kink? I don’t know what to think of this. Like I’m usually a quiet, shy person. But the more I kicked or blocked him, the cuter I thought he was and I liked it. Maybe it was playful to me. But, at one point, he was coming after me and wanted me to block him and I couldn’t help but giggle a little. The eye contact was strong but we were observing each other’s movements. I haven’t been able to stop thinking about him since that class. Maybe I felt something? I don’t know. But is that weird.

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Anon Post wrote:
I went to a self defense class the other day and I enjoyed it.

Good for you!

Anon Post wrote:
But the more he was teaching us the more attractive he became.

....to you. In reality, he didn't look any different before you began class than afterward.

Anon Post wrote:
the more I kicked him, the hotter he became.

...Emm, no.... The more you worked out, the more aroused you became.

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But the more I kicked or blocked him, the cuter I thought he was and I liked it.

That's more like it, and you should understand what the differences are. I believe a lot of his female students, past and present, have felt the very same way - he sounds like a very handsome gent.

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The eye contact was strong but we were observing each other’s movements.

Well, you did say his eyes were pretty, but I think he was looking at your eyes to see where you would be looking to strike next - it's a defense combat technique.

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Maybe I felt something?

I don't know.

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I don’t know.

Weird.

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But is that weird?

Maybe.

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Yes, that's weird. That is 12% weirder than Dracula making a deposit at the blood bank.

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Wiki wrote:
Aerobic exercise induces short- and long-term effects on mood and emotional states by promoting positive affect, inhibiting negative affect, and decreasing the biological response to acute psychological stress.[13] Over the short-term, aerobic exercise functions as both an antidepressant and euphoriant,[14][15][16][17] whereas consistent exercise produces general improvements in mood and self-esteem.[18][19]
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In popular culture and media, dopamine is often seen as the main chemical of pleasure, but the current opinion in pharmacology is that dopamine instead confers motivational salience;[3][4][5] in other words, dopamine signals the perceived motivational prominence (i.e., the desirability or aversiveness) of an outcome, which in turn propels the organism's behavior toward or away from achieving that outcome.[5][6]

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Just a bit less held back than usual. Possibly confusing the extent of attraction and pleasure, but no precedent has been set, by far.

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What yeti said. Using your body, him using his. You're in a more primal state than your natural, defensive, walking down the street mode.

I have similar experiences when my hairdresser is being a bit more sensual than she needs to be. That is all i will say about that.

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Perfectly normal.

Besides the physical, primal sort of thing that people have mentioned, there is the part of getting to know someone and learning from them that makes them more attractive.

You know, the guy who isn't so cute in your opinion, who works in the same place you do but in a different department....suddenly becomes more attractive when you meet him in a more personal setting: at a mutual friend's house for a party/dinner, and you begin to talk and then you realize that you enjoy the convo, etc...suddenly he's more cute and you just might flirt at work....and his response to that means you might go out on a date....etc.

Or you were just *****horny. Could be that, too ;)

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Did you have crushes on teachers in school? Same thing. Some females have a strong attraction to authority figures. If they are hansom, taller, muscular, and hold a position of superior intellect and training such as a cop or firefighter.

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I faved SmartAZ's comment because it's funny, but I agree with the others. Working out is a known path to arousal, and there's nothing weird about it.

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Nothing is weird about it. You're attracted to him.

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I used to play basketball with this girl and it was better than ***sex with most girls. Sweating, running, pushing and rubbing against each other, all this physical touching and reacting to each other's movement was something else. I can totally relate to what you are saying.

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