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It starts tomorrow!

Have a great session and date!

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So we have to come to a decisionโ€ฆ Helptogo is being shut down, and they have offered us to buy the domain, and more importantly the info (as helptogo does still have all the old posts from the

Somehow I do not see newcomers "mining" all of those old posts.

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My whole life along with social anxiety agoraphobia panic attacks obsessive compulsive depression i keep getting either mania or extreme bed ridden depression.

You're welcome.

Just hang in there and find a decent therapist, and unburden yourself of those thoughts and memories that make you feel bad.

All of those things can be banished!

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That evil "control key."

Yes, but it's hard with a laptop! If you have an external keyboard, it really helps!

Don't know how people manage with tablets that have ultra-tiny keyboards!

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My whole life along with social anxiety agoraphobia panic attacks obsessive compulsive depression i keep getting either mania or extreme bed ridden depression.

I believe, Anon, that you need therapy to help you realize how an abusive father damaged your psyche and how to repair that damage. As an example, the famous author and evangelist Joyce Meyer had been *****raped by her father. After she got married, she treated her husband like dirt. She finally realized what she was doing and got therapy. She saved both her marriage and her own soul!

First and foremost, you have to realize that what happened to you was in no way your fault, that you did not "deserve" the treatment you received. Your father was beset by demons probably as a result of abuse. Sociologists estimate that a parent's influence will be felt up to 250 years down the generational lines.

You must also realize that the abuse you suffered does not define you. You are a child of God. You may have had the worst parents on the planet, but you are still a child of God--with rights and dignity conferred on you by the Most High.

Whatever happened in the past can be transcended. And, while we cannot change the past, we sure as heck can change the future.

The past is gone . . . the present is lost as it arrives . . . there is only the future!

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My whole life along with social anxiety agoraphobia panic attacks obsessive compulsive depression i keep getting either mania or extreme bed ridden depression.

I would suggest seeing a doctor. I think you may eventually need a psychiatrist.

But there are caveats. It is the practice today to throw pills at every medical problem. And medications may, indeed, be necessary to get your brain chemistry right. I don't think pills are a permanent solution, however. The root causes of anxiety or depression must be identified, confronted, and booted from your mind.

What worries you right now? What are you most concerned about? What problems seem insoluble right now?

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Are pit bulls safe to have as a domestic dog?

I take it that Kratos is not particularly fond of the new baby, and that leaving him alone with an infant for "just a minute" could have tragic consequences.

There's probably some places for him--but not within a light year of any kids.

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Does anyone know any good dating sites for Christians or a way of finding any others online?

It probably goes without saying that "satanistmingle.com" is not a good place to look . . .

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I have a few days holiday, , any suggestions as to what I can do in this holiday?

First, tell us where you live!

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That evil "control key."

Oh, but it has happened multiple times. And the undo button would not work.

Will try CONTROL + Z !

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