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ProffVampy
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So i have my first real date in 5years on friday...


what on earth do i do?! We are going for cocktails in town which is my kind of night but its been so long im worried i'll do or say something stupid! Any suggestions? He seems like a really nice guy but I havent met him in person yet!

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Eat before you go. Eat while you're there. Pay careful attention to how he interacts with the waitress/waiter. It will tell you a lot more than he will.
Oh, and enjoy yourself. You deserve this time to have some fun.

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Soco said it.

This is, effectively what is known, as a Blind Date.

Stretch the drinks and keep it to 3 hrs max (personal opinion).

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Also, dress very conservative. He will still flirt with you regardless. It is okay to flirt back. 5 years is not that long.

And the day after, we want to hear back how it went, okay?

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Wait a minute don't I remember you just telling me you had a fight and broke up with a guy a couple of days ago? I know I didn't comment but yeah I saw that. Where did this 5 year deal come in? If you are in a relationship it doesn't count? So this is the first NEW guy in 5 years? I'm confused. I hope you didn't just break up with your boyfriend or husband whoever it was so we'd have something to talk about. lol Well then again...

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Oh and soco the gig is up. I just remembered who you really are. Southern Comfort...

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Have fun, don't overthink it and don't do anything I wouldn't do.

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DocteurRalph wrote:
Oh and soco the gig is up. I just remembered who you really are. Southern Comfort...

I never claimed different. Have a different email now. When I registered here it said that username was already spoken for.

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I liked Dave. What happened to him? He had a laptop that would blow up if you put the password in wrong too many times.

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Jalex wrote:
I liked Dave. What happened to him? He had a laptop that would blow up if you put the password in wrong too many times.

oh good gawd he cheated on me with every girls in his local area xD hes was a knob. Was with chris for 4 years though that just ran its course and we were going in different directions. and then recently I was with Matt who was the one causing all the drama and im putting down to a learning experience and wont be going back to!

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Wait a minute don't I remember you just telling me you had a fight and broke up with a guy a couple of days ago? I know I didn't comment but yeah I saw that. Where did this 5 year deal come in? If you are in a relationship it doesn't count? So this is the first NEW guy in 5 years? I'm confused. I hope you didn't just break up with your boyfriend or husband whoever it was so we'd have something to talk about. lol Well then again...

And no its not my first date in 5 years but my first date with someone that wasnt a boyfriend in 5years that i havent met properly yet! Indeed a blind date! I have gone and got a lovely new dress which is just above the knee and doesnt show off much on top but its got a bit of lace on it for a flirty aspect which should be good!

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soco wrote:
Eat before you go. Eat while you're there. Pay careful attention to how he interacts with the waitress/waiter. It will tell you a lot more than he will.
Oh, and enjoy yourself. You deserve this time to have some fun.

eating is something i can do! i plan to have something when i finish work to eat so the booze doesnt go straight to my head hehe. and i think we'll get a nibble platter or something while we are there rather than an actual meal as its cocktail bar we're going to

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soco wrote:
Eat before you go. Eat while you're there. Pay careful attention to how he interacts with the waitress/waiter. It will tell you a lot more than he will.
Oh, and enjoy yourself. You deserve this time to have some fun.

eating is something i can do! i plan to have something when i finish work to eat so the booze doesnt go straight to my head hehe. and i think we'll get a nibble platter or something while we are there rather than an actual meal as its cocktail bar we're going to

Some crackers before and a shareable appetizer is what I meant. No not a full meal either time. Sorry I did not clarify. And sindce this is a blind date, do Dutch. You don't want to feel any obligation for any future dates. That will also keep your spending down. Do this at the beginning of the date, not the end.

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I'd listen to what soco said. She pretty much hit the nail on the head

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Nothing to add from above - aside from really hope you have fun and good luck! X

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soco wrote:
Eat before you go. Eat while you're there. Pay careful attention to how he interacts with the waitress/waiter. It will tell you a lot more than he will.
Oh, and enjoy yourself. You deserve this time to have some fun.

Being a vamp this maybe to much to soon for a first date.

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soco wrote:
Eat before you go. Eat while you're there. Pay careful attention to how he interacts with the waitress/waiter. It will tell you a lot more than he will.
Oh, and enjoy yourself. You deserve this time to have some fun.

Being a vamp this maybe to much to soon for a first date.

Never!

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it went pretty well guys! had a couple of drinks in town and had a good chat, turns out we know a few of the same people in this town which was nice. though i wouldnt say there was a spark there for me...clearly was for him as he tried to kiss me goodbye, i was going for the hug, we both hesitated halfway through and he kinda kissed my ear and i half hugged him. it was very awkward.

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It gets easier. Glad you had a good time. A little bit of clumsiness is to be expected. Give yourself a pat on the back for still going for the hug. If he happens to offer a half-apology, accept it graciously and move forward.

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