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I gave until I couldn't give any more.

Now, I've decided to walk away...for good!

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Electric
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You did the best you could and that's all anyone can do if put into that position.
When this person sees the error of their ways and comes crawling back...the hard part (or easy), is not to take them back.

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What are we talking about - savings for future retirement needs or STD's?

Help me with:

We have another hurricane coming this way.

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I would say don't let a rotton apple spoil the barrel. You will always have more friends than enemies and if you're ernest, who cares about those enemies.
All my best. BA1

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better to walk away than burn yourself out beyond repair! it might be hard but you did the right thing

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If only one is giving, and one is only taking . . . not much of a relationship there.

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I have to say I understand, however, make sure you don't leave open wounds on either part. It's hard to go back in time and wish you had said something. Guilt and resentment sucks more than just walking away, it's a haunting thing. Just make sure it's really what you want. Maybe talk it out, try to find a common ground instead of throwing in the towel?

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I'm sorry you feel the way you do.

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Sounds like it needs to be ended.

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It has been ended. Thank God!

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well you seem happy so good on you! heres to the future!! clinks drink

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It sounds like you did the best thing for you!

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A good relationship makes you feel good about yourself.

A bad relationship makes you doubt yourself and feel bad.

I have seen women stay in relationships that were bad because they were "reluctant to change."

These women were miserable.

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Come back!
I'll give you all my boxes of cookies and then I'll go get some milk.
That way, we will both have something to give.
Most people like cookies. I bet we meet lots of new people that give something too

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Anonymous wrote:
It has been ended. Thank God!

As one as you are ok.😊

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Sherlock wrote:
A good relationship makes you feel good about yourself.

A bad relationship makes you doubt yourself and feel bad.

I have seen women stay in relationships that were bad because they were "reluctant to change."

These women were miserable.

I kind of read this like some sort of new-age, relationship haiku. Ha-ha.

But I totally agree with you and have seen the same thing myself over and over with friends and coworkers.

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Love sucks!

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Anonymous wrote:
Love sucks!

Not always. Hope your ok Anon.

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