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I’ve been stuck here for such a long time I don’t think I will ever get out.

I hate it. What’s the point. I have no support. No money. I don’t have anything

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I’m sick of trying and getting no where

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Having money is far less important if you have support. I'm sorry you don't have support.

As far as having nothing.... maybe try to find something positive that you have...

Since becoming a mom, I have often felt that same "what's the point...."I feel like I need to contribute to society as a whole... and I'm feeling more and more incompetent for that.

So, I've decided to "bloom where I'm planted" and to try to change my little corner of the world and be positive. Maybe you could do that, too? It's a mindset shift. Being happy for what you have and where you are versus trying to make a bang....

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join the *******fucking club

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Jebus-Zeus wrote:
join the *******fucking club

Likewise.

****Shit eh

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Right there with you guys. I have officially hit rock bottom... on a brighter note there's no place left to go but up from here.

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Are you still going to therapy? A month ago you said you were making good progress. What has happened between then and now?

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We have another hurricane coming this way.

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I like the bloom where you are planted idea. In fact it was the main theme of the book I stole this Docteur Ralph name from... actually what he said was "cultivate your garden". Just worry about your backyard, take care of the little things and be happy where you are. The world will take care of itself.

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soco wrote:
Are you still going to therapy? A month ago you said you were making good progress. What has happened between then and now?

My therapy ended about 3 weeks ago. I was in a good place. But now I dont feel like my life is moving forward. I feel like everyone is watching over me telling me what I should and need to do.

My main issue is I need to move out. I need to be alone. But I just can't. Ive been looking for locations to start my business but no one is getting back to me. I just feel like I havent moved forward and wont be able to until i move out.

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That's like the main problem in America now too. They call it "failure to launch". Yeah it has it's own name. Rent is sooo high and wages are sooo low that kid can't get out from under their parent's roofs. I should know I have three middle aged men living in my house, two of whom are my sons and the other is one of their friends who I just took in because he needed help. They are all three gone right now pooling their resources and looking for someplace else to live.

And really in my situation I'm not sure I want an empty nest. My wife claims she lives in a men's dormitory and bitches a lot about it but I enjoy having people around I always have and I always will. If they move out there will be three empty bedrooms and a big empty house with just me and my wife... hmm. They hate the stigma of living with their parent's and I can certainly see that. I moved out when I was 18 but it was a whole lot easier. TV was free, rent was cheap, and still employer's paid about the same as they do now. In 1980 I was making $10 an hour and a lot of people can't do that now. It's sad all over. Welcome to the global economy we will all be eating rice when the Chinese take over.

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