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:) How are you all?

I'm fine! here's some flowers for both soco and you!
https://fyf.tac-cdn.net/images/products/large/BF52-11KM.jpg
funny thing. I never liked flowers. they're doomed to die in a few days. other things though last for ever. I mean, who and why said that you must express your love by "sacrificing" something so beautiful? hah

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It's my birthday!

awww happy birthday smiley!!!!!
like wine we get better with age! (or is it we feel better about our age with some wine? hah!)

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Let's post some funny videos!!!


https://youtu.be/JKlpxnI3TtM
https://youtu.be/TkX8HrhJyrU
https://youtu.be/0W4rXbbbAEY
https://youtu.be/j9tQxG9EG6c
the more I watch this guy the more I laugh!

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A guy I went out with just reached out and asked me to lunch.

Anonymous wrote:
Update- my gynecologist called and I have a STI. So there is my answer on this topic

oh gosh! I'm so sorry! just to be clear, when I said give your best self, I didn't have this in mind!!! at least you've learned something! NEVER and I mean NEVER have unprotected ***sex when you're not in a permanent relationship!
oh well, it could be a lot worse.. you had a narrow escape. please don't ever do that again! anyways, I wish you well Anon. if there's anything we can do, any questions you might have, let us know.

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We are coming up to our 1 year anniversary.

Jebus-Zeus wrote:
show yer ****tits!

I always thought soco was a man! lol don't know why!

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how to be human

verge wrote:
Cool post, I am curious about what we have in common among those things with all the other beasts.

when I read the article it made me think something about basic instincts. let me (try to!) explain.
it's said that our basic instincts is what keeps us alive and protect us. this is the reason why you feel hungry etc.
but. when a baby is born, although they do have the basic instincts, you'll often hear parents say that babies are always trying to get themselves killed! why is that? why does a baby feel hunger but they could easily jump from a balcony? because balcony is manmade. children have the instincts to survive but they're not programmed to live in a city. same goes for animals. they don't feel the need to built a house unless it's important for their survival.
that's why I often say there's a difference between need and want.

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A guy I went out with just reached out and asked me to lunch.

what Rockster says about 0 expectations, is a really good advice but never worked for me. chances are he won't give you a clear answer in just a meal. it might take more than that. what I did was hope for the best, gave my best self and at least when it didn't work, I was hurt but I was sure I couldn't have done anything more. when you expect him to bail chances are he will. oh, and off course he'll have a good reason for not showing up. they always do! but you should ask him anyway, so that he knows that this is not accepted. when I asked to see his intentions, I said something like "out of curiosity... bla bla bla just to see if we're on the same page". I didn't put any pressure and also made light of it. I didn't get a clear answer but I gave a clear message. hope it works for you! keep us updated!

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A guy I went out with just reached out and asked me to lunch.

happened to me a while ago. so, I just asked him but he wasn't man enough to give me a clear answer. so I said to myself that I'll give him another chance to see where this is going. well, it didn't go anywhere and ended up hurt anyway!
I can't be sure about your case, but I'm pretty sure you'll get hurt anyway if you keep seeing this guy. even if he wants a relationship, there's something wrong with him. I mean, why he stood you up so many times anyway? if you don't want to deal with guys bs and you think you deserve more, then there isn't much to say.
if you think you can handle it if you get hurt, and he really deserves a chance, then go ahead. but, when I say he really deserves a chance, "I really like him" is not enough. if I were you I'd only give him a chance if I thought that he was a really good person. otherwise don't bother.

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Answer truthfully (yes or no) to the following question: Will the next word you say be 'no'?

no.
I didn't say it. I typed it! and I was actually thinking of doing the never say no, one of these days! it'll be fun!

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how to be human

BIG.AL.ONE wrote:

Kalinihta wrote:
In (the) Greek, 'monk' literally means "to be alone." There are monks living in mountains, inside cells, and they often don't see people for days. (And sometimes weeks). They pray alone or do the job alone and then pray again, like nothing in mind. They don't have close bonds with people in general, and most no longer have family ties. And the first synthetic (for) the word monastery, also means alone.

The Big Alone wrote:
(Nods)

oh thanks a lot Al!!! I really appreciate this! :)
@PepperJ what Al said! ๐Ÿ˜‹

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