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I've been scared of someone for years and because of the illness I had feel bad for even considering contacting them.

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Thanks I have walked passed him and ignored him. He has done nothing to me and I've left him alone.
I have booked to see a counsellor for September.

yay! well done!!!

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how do i post photos here?

sorry I'm late, had to do the calculations!
this photo is definitely photoshopped.
this is what an overweight person would look like:https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/z/woman-body-mass... her bmi is at the orange one.
so, what you're looking at the sports illustrated photo, is a perfectly healthy woman.

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how do i post photos here?

@DocteurRalph no one is attacking you! I thought we could make a nice conversation about this, but I'm guessing either you've been attacked too many times on the web for this picture, or it is my fault, the way I speak English sometimes is not appropriate. sorry you felt attacked.
the woman in the sports illustrated is in no way 40 extra pounds. except if she's photoshopped, it wouldn't be a surprise. and even if she is, her body doesn't look that bad, and she's more real than skinny models, and her picture on the sports illustruated is a nice gesture for all those moms out there who probably have this, or worse body. give them a rest! it's just a one time thing. all the rest of the sports magazines have skinny or too masculine, hulk kinda guys. our society has so many f*cked up standards, it's exhausting. it's nice for a change to see once in a while the true face of things.

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Eleanor had 2 more kittens after almost 24 hours.

awww! Esme is helping Eleanor! how sweet!!! they must either be really good friends, or relatives to do that (or in some cases cats who recently had kittens do that) but it's not that common! some cats could kill their own kittens, or not recognize them and stop feeding them, if they smell like another cat.
and the "just because" picture of Agnes made me smile! (hah I also smiled when I first read Eleanors name because it kinda sound like my name, and from what I read, they almost have the same meaning! hah)
thanks for the update Ash! good to hear they're doing ok.

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how do i post photos here?

but, but, this girl is not fat! she's just not anorexic and not photoshopped! I think most, real, healthy women look like that. I'm very sorry (not sorry!) that reality bothers you! and in no way I'd call her unattractive just because she has 4-5 extra pounds. (extra according what, I wonder, if she's healthy that way, then they're not extra pounds. and there's no way her kilos would make her sick)

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the essentials of becoming a statue..

βέβαια, μεταφορικά μιλώντας, δεν έχω αποφασίσει αν είναι καλό να είσαι άγαλμα κ αν είναι τόσο απλό να σηκωθείς να φύγεις όταν η στάση σου είναι παγιωμένη στον χρόνο!
επίσης δεν ήξερα ότι η φράση που είπε η φίλη πιο πάνω υπάρχει και στα αγγλικά! χαχαχ

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"thanks" "sorry" "I love you" "well done"

Soco your words (Kent's words) are inspiring!!! thank you, I really needed to hear something like that now!
and I think I'll take your advice about the helium balloon!!! what a nice idea!
she seems pretty disconnected from her inner child and I was actually thinking to invite her to a luna park. (yeah, I still go to those! hah) I guess a helium balloon would work wonders! thanks! :)

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the essentials of becoming a statue..

hah! I had heard that a Zeus statue had been stolen from an italian museum. who knew!

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"thanks" "sorry" "I love you" "well done"

hi @Cara! thanks for your input! I'll keep your words in mind.
healing and changing are two totally different things. you can't change anyone and it would be stupid for me to try. no one can change unless they work alone with themselves. but. as I said above, there's no good or bad person. depends on how you treat them. I know for a fact that many people, if they were in the same situation with two different people, they'd react totally different depending on who they've got in front of them.
so, there are two scenarios. you either change yourself to try and accept the fact that the other person is going to treat you badly, or you try to show the other person that they can trust you. so they can begin their path to change themselves. I don't want to give up hope and let them be, I care too much for this person, so much that, at least, I can try. I can try to show them that there is good in this world. if I don't succeed, at least I tried. it takes time and a lot of effort. but I've seen it happen a few times. some people just need a push.
it all comes to the point where you decide what kind of person YOU want to be.
when I decide to get involved in a situation like this, I always ask myself: in two years from now, if I looked back, what would I see? would I see a person who didn't give two f**ks, or would I be able to say that I tried my best, no matter what the outcome was?
you might have given up on others, I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I did that.

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"thanks" "sorry" "I love you" "well done"

thanks for warning me @Yorick and @smiley ! I'll keep that in mind. :)

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