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My girlfriend and I need a ride.

Anonymous wrote:
NOR DID I EVEN TALK ABOUT IT WITH HER.

Here's your problem.

The fact that women who have answered see no problem in her actions should indicate to you that there is a good chance she doesn't even realize your feelings have been hurt.

Talk with her. Tell her how you feel. I'm sure the two of you can reach an understanding if you communicate.

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My girlfriend and I need a ride.

You only mentioned the car ride before, not a whole behavior pattern.

Have you communicated with her that you feel this way? If she knows it upsets you and she does it anyway, it might be time to reevaluate the relationship. Do you want to feel like this for the rest of your life?

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My girlfriend and I need a ride.

If you don't know the guy, it might be awkward for you to sit in front, and it certainly would be awkward for both of you to sit in the back. I think you're letting your insecurity get the better of you.

I like the suggestion that you sit behind your girlfriend and lightly touch or rub her shoulder. That might help you feel less insecure since you would be "staking claim".

But it won't help with the underlying insecurity. Do you have any reason to not trust your girlfriend? Or are you carrying baggage from previous failed relationships? You might want to look into it and solve the real problem.

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The old farmer

The farmer is balanced. He remained calm and neither got upset nor ecstatic when life's random events affected him. He knew that all is temporary; good and bad both pass.

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Thoughts are always and constant.

I know it's hard, but you gotta break up with him. He's bad for you at this phase of your life. When you have both matured, you can meet again, but right now he will only hurt you.

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Thoughts are always and constant.

It seems that you both fear and are attracted to death. It's an unhealthy relationship.

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I need to get out more.

@Araz thank you, you give good advice that I didn't want to hear but needed. Making friends is hard and there's no shortcut. I just gotta quit being a coward or accept things as they are.

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I need to get out more.

Lano wrote:

smiley wrote:

music=life wrote:
I like to give people complaints. Just the little things like โ€˜I like your shoesโ€™ or saying happy Friday to people.

If I compliment someone's shoes, what if they think I am able to talk shoes? If they start about pumps and slides and whatever, I'll just stand there looking stupid.

People tend not to change the subject so suddenly, in my opinion. Pumps are used to push air or water or fuel from one area into another area via mechanical means. While slides are a mode of transportation that relies completely on gravity.

So not much to do with shoes !!!

Haha! That's exactly the kind of response I would be likely to give if someone commented about the shoes called pumps! But I do love a pun, so it'd be totally intentional, and then people look at me funny for a minute, and walk away.

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I need to get out more.

music=life wrote:
I like to give people complaints. Just the little things like โ€˜I like your shoesโ€™ or saying happy Friday to people.

If I compliment someone's shoes, what if they think I am able to talk shoes? If they start about pumps and slides and whatever, I'll just stand there looking stupid.

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I need to get out more.

music=life wrote:

Lano wrote:

music=life wrote:
I like to give people complaints.

Yes, good brainstorming.

Airplane food is terrible. Whats up with that???

Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ Iโ€™m so dumb

I don't know. Sometimes the typo is good. I mean, who can't relate to "Ugh! When is this crappy weather going to change?" You know, building cameraderie through shared suffering.

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