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I was told that

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"without evil we could never find out the power of love"

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Iโ€™m in one of those moods.

People can never dictate how WE FEEL. We subconsciously invite them.

Put another way: I truly believe that people who come into our 'sphere' are mirrors to how we feel inside. They reflect what we hide.

A really deep question you might want to consider: Do you like or respect yourself? If not, why not and do you want to change that?

Once you truly begin to respect and love yourself you can only attract nicer people who reflect that.

You commit to change and your interactions will change.

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Cool word! I like it.

"The word recidivism comes from the Latin root words re, meaning "back," and caedere, meaning "to fall" โ€” or literally "to fall back." The word is most commonly used to discuss the relapse rate of criminals, who have served their sentence and have been released. However, it can be used for any relapse in behavior."

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Life sucks.

Find the courage to do something that gets you out of the routine living. Explore something new, something different, something that can stimulate your senses. You can do this at no cost. Choose to do this anyway and despite how you feel.

Your circumstances may indeed be difficult but there is a way to endure hardship with a smile, or at least acceptance until change comes.

Rest assured nothing ever stays the same. A positive outlook certainly helps speed things up.

May you find ease and guidance soon ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

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I have fallen in love and I don't want it!

The physical/ emotional signs will go away (never mind the intensity now) if you pluck up the courage and disconnect entirely from that person.
Especially if this is early days, you can nip this right in the bud, but you must cease ALL contact with the other person... if you truly want to avoid cheating on your spouse.

Remember its not just your relationship at stake, but his too. A lot of pain and heartache could result.

The more you keep in contact the more feelings will build and the harder it will be to pull away. Do the right thing now.

Use the time instead to magnify the positive aspects of your husband and remind yourself of why you got together in the first place.

It is all about shifting attention and it's all up to you.

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I guess I'm going to let it go...

As hard as it is to accept, you owe it to yourself to move on. If he saw you the way you saw him, things would have been different a long time ago.
Trust that you deserve better and you can do better. Most importantly learn to love yourself enough to walk away from anyone that for whatever reason, disrupts your peace and joy. You are valuable, remember that!

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What can I do to get my child to stop chewing his clothes?

I guess its his way of deriving comfort.
I say unless he is causing any form of harm, let him be.

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Iโ€™m in one of those moods.

People can never dictate how WE FEEL. We subconsciously invite them.

Put another way: I truly believe that people who come into our 'sphere' are mirrors to how we feel inside. They reflect what we hide.

A really deep question you might want to consider: Do you like or respect yourself? If not, why not and do you want to change that?

Once you truly begin to respect and love yourself you can only attract nicer people who reflect that.

You commit to change and your interactions will change.

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