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Dr isnt listening to me

Thank you :)
.. how can i manage when i go offline? How do i manage then? When i cant talk to people? My concept of time is bad and i spend too long online n it makes me bad. I got to send wifi hub down my mams.. otherwise i get carried away n gets harder to care for myself.

But then how can i connect with people?

I got aome friends i can text... but what about when i dont want to worry them?

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Wading through a sea of dreams,

Thank you

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Did he just ask me to hangout with him or did I misunderstand him?

What about asking him who he is going with? Then that might invite him to say something like, oh i was wondering if you would like to go with me.

Or

You could say like, “I like watching the game too. Who are you going with?”

I personally think he might like you ;) I think he was lost in thought at the car wondering if he said his words right. Like, how can I ask her without asking her LOL I think he might be shy. Maybe he was thinking, maybe if I had said it this way... I guess I did it wrong..

Yeah I agree with slash. He is giving you time to think about it. So next time he sees you hoping you can talk about it again.

You could bring up in convo next time like, hey remember how you said you were going to the game the other day? Who are you going with?

And then take it from there.

Eek! Good luck I hope all goes well. How far away is the date for the game?

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ok guys, got some real help needed here

I dunno what to say except good luck. Also I agree with the be careful with the comparing yourself to others. Best to stay humble or you get judged on that. It’s only social acceptable when you are close to someone to tell them the real truth.

Although.... meh I dunno really. Just see how it goes I guess.

If they think you don’t get along with others or feel resentment to the, they may foresee grievances in future between you and them. Best to be a “team player” I guess.

Good luck and don’t forget to breath x

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Some of my friends I grew up with ended up being party goers on the weekends and that sort of thing.

Thank you @soco

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Do other people ever feel like this?..

verge wrote:
I used to feel that way a lot, it was mostly when I was stuck in an unhealthy lifestyle and socially isolated. I think mainly the isolation did it. Honestly in those couple years, it was talking on help that kept me sane. I'm really grateful I had a small way to connect.

It helped me when I was going through nervous breakdown. It taught me so so much and really shaped me into who I am today. I think I learnt a great deal about how to interact with others too from seeing it and interacting on here all those years ago.

I was 15 when I first came on help. Now I’m 28. Wow!

When I was back at school I hardly used to talk at all. I’d respond but never initiate. Hello and smile was as far as i went. For most part. I’ve come a long way.

I like coming online to talk but it makes my body ache and feel more bad doing so. It’s always a sacrifice somewhere.

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Do other people ever feel like this?..

Slash wrote:

jetmoo wrote:
My vision is like looking at a photograph all around me, as if it almost doesnt feel quite real. But i know it is and can touch it.

I live in an old sunbleached postcard. But, I died a long time ago.

I’m sorry

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Do other people ever feel like this?..

Anonymous wrote:
Ok.
Well maybe you have ESP??

What’s that?

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Dr isnt listening to me

What if my carer leaves the country? Cos brexit. Her partner is Portuguese and if he has to go she will go with him.

I get frightened of being left on my own. I get frightened. Not short term. But to be left.. unsupported to struggle. To be put at risk to try and have friends again. I get frightened. A boy came to my house once... he could have *****raped me. He went over the top of me and I was all on my own and blinds shut and he backed off. But what if he didn’t. anything could happen to me. I’m frightened I don’t want bad people hurt me. And the angel neighbour acros the road trying to financially abuse me selling me a faulty scooter and blaming it on me it not working properly.

I’m tired of it all. I don’t wanna be alone no more. I want to have friends like everyone else.

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Dr isnt listening to me

Carers said they would help me but I’m still frightened

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