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For light sensitivity of artificial light on devices, what is the best product to filter out the light, mostly the blue light in particular?

Thank you @BigWilly!!

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So I am a Athiest, what now?

I don't understand why people can't agree to disagree. ??

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So I am a Athiest, what now?

danihatesyou wrote:

SmartAZ wrote:
Matthew 22:37-38 King James Version (KJV)
37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. 38 This is the first and great commandment.

It's first because God is the God of rightness. If you don't put rightness first, it doesn't matter much what you believe instead.

to each our own i respect whatever that is... just don't live by it

I'm not judging, just curious. How come?

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i hate you humans.

SmartAZ wrote:

Jetmoo wrote:
I like the ones that give big fuzzy hugs :) and the ones u can say .. unique.. LOL .. things to.

Like when I can tell my carer that she is SUCH a good turnip xD haha and the types of people u can tell u r deepest darkest secrets to. Such as..... being a unicorn disguised as as human.

I guess maybe u might love me now. Haha xx

farts sparkle dust oops pardon me! ๐Ÿ™Š

I read the bible once. It says we are all butt dust.

Hahaha! Butt dust

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At times, the slithering passage of time is no more than an excruciating passage to be endured for allowing fresh perspectives to emerge out of the aether.

I like your expression

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How do you pick a person?

I also think that you seek to understand them and why they behave as they do, perhaps so you can be supportive to them and help them.

The problem is, that not everyone wants help. Not everyone wants to let others in. And by trying to eventually help someone through their struggles can be perceived as criticism of them which could make them resentful and turn nasty towards you

And they can perceive acts of kindness as suspicious and ingenuine. And react hurtful towards you.

People who have problems DO NEED HELP. But it must be done safely.

If you can't do.it safely then don't do it.

Keep yourself safe.

If u want to try and interact with someone like this then try and have a different person who you know well and trust with you and invite to meet in a public area.

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How do you pick a person?

I think I've answered this post in the wrong order.

I think they are a mentally abusive person and I'd advise you steer clear of those.

Sometimes it's hard to understand mental abuse. If u look up psychological abuse on Google u will find some good indicators to watch out for

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How do you pick a person?

You sound sooo like me.

As I have lived as an unwanted oddball on the outskirts being lonely, I end up drawn to other "odd balls" who don't "fit in" with others.

Because I don't want them to feel lonely, hurt and unwanted in the same way that I have felt.

I have learnt that we need to be careful who we reach out to and how we do it.


I am the type of person who would happily be anyone's friend, or be willing to try anyway (health & circumstances permitting).

But not everyone WANTS to be our friend. You can't make someone do something that they do not want to do.

You can offer thw invitation but when someone doesn't respond to it once or twice then it means they probably don't want to be friends. Or it might be the wrong time to be friends.

But to leave it in their hands if they want to contact you.

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I can't stand human contact

In my search to find out about myself I did a personality test (this one was for fun really amongst all the other online tests I did that I took more seriously).

I got INFJ. That personality type is really rare. And the results are me to a tee. As years gone by I've tried it a few times and got same answer so I figure it must be legit.

That sort of helped me to understand who I am a bit better.

It's no wonder people have a hard time understanding me.

I don't mean to sound... self centered talking about myself, but maybe u might be able to relate to some of it. And maybe that might be helpful in some way?

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I can't stand human contact

BigWilly! wrote:
Some people just don't really need other people, and that isn't bad or good.. it just is.

I agree in a way.
Some people have introvert personalities and some have extrovert personalities.

My dad is the one which enjoys his own company.


I think the main thing for the OP is, do they like their own company or are they isolating themselves for another reason and not liking being alone.

Are they an introvert or an extrovert?

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