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When a close friend suddenly returns phone calls a week after you left a message and says hes been busy what does that really mean?

Deprivation ** Ugh. Sorry!

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When a close friend suddenly returns phone calls a week after you left a message and says hes been busy what does that really mean?

i hope that some of what I said helped. :( If not, I am sorry and I hope that perhaps things settle down or shift in the future.

As maybe one more thing though, it might help to remember that some people sometimes don't think to put their friends before their responsibilities, and sometimes, it can be a bit of a mix and match. For instance, some people see their responsibilities/career first because it pays the bills.

I apologize if that sounds a little skewiff. I didn't know a better way to explain it. A week's worth of sleep deprecation doesn't do my brain good. Lol.

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Everyone is extremely grateful for this 'resurrection' as it were.

That works, yes! I only suggested it because sometimes there are just things that some people may not be willing to share so publicly. Some things are rather sensitive, you know? I know I've run into a few of those realizations myself.

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Everyone is extremely grateful for this 'resurrection' as it were.

Rockster160 wrote:

As far as modernizing the site- that's all going to be on me. If you've got any specific features/requests, please send them my way. ๐Ÿ˜„ I think if there is ever any site-changing feature requested, I'll do a poll on whether or not to implement it. Or we can do the same for choosing which request comes next.

I have one request specifically; PRIVATE MESSAGES! Lol. How that never even occurred to the original site Admins, I'll never know.

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When a close friend suddenly returns phone calls a week after you left a message and says hes been busy what does that really mean?

If no argument, then as Soco said, I wouldn't read too much into it. At long distance, things can become twice as more busy and/or hectic as someone in the same city. I have local friends whom I haven't seen in a year or two just because we are at different paces in life (I also, do not drive) however, when crisis happens, or something important comes up, they are right by my side.

So try not to think too much of it. Even if it is three months (though personally I think that is a bit too much - that is, after all, just me) some people can just get side tracked with things around them - even if you used to talk every day.

If nothing sinister has happened, or nothing to giv off "awkward vibes" do not worry so much unless they behave differently toward you. From what it sounds like...this is the first time, and you haven't mentioned whether it's a constant pattern. If it was, THEN I would start to be really worried.

Until then, keep your wits about you, and try not to jump to too many conclusions. i know it's hard, but sometimes being the more level-headed person can benefit YOU more than anything.

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observed **

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Both you and Rockster, of course. Lol.

Odd actually, I've always onserved that Dani gives hugs to anyone except me. :P On a count of she think I'm someone who lives in America...somehow.

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soco wrote:
Second, Rockstar160 did this rebuild entirely on his own. He was not asked. He was not paid. He just saw the same need as the original founders did for this site. He spent his own money and time learning how to put it back together. Asking for a small donation is just a way of thanking him for His altruism and seeing the need for this still, probably more so in this day and age. I don't think that need will ever end even long after all of our lives come to completion.
It also should be made clear, none of this money is going into Rockster's pocket. It is solely for the purpose to keep this going for as long as humanly possible.

I want to hug you. Can I please hug you? Virtually of course, and consent is absolutely voluntary!

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Oh no no no! I didn't mean to assume you were!

Sorry, perhaps my humor does not come across well. I did not mean to imply or assume that my donation was something to gripe about. Not at all. :) In fact, I feel pretty damn pathetic that I have almost $300, but I cannot part with it for anything else other than this weekend. :( Like I am not doing enough.

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When a close friend suddenly returns phone calls a week after you left a message and says hes been busy what does that really mean?

However, thinking back on that - did n argument take place? Perhaps the person might feel that avoiding you was justified?

Not that I am attempting to victim blame if not the case, but um...in some of my experiences, the person who is being avoided has made the other person upset/uncomfortable.

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