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The last words of jesus Crist.....

This answers the old question. The egg came first..

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When did the world become black and white?

Our world was supposed to be colourful but we've come to a point were everything is gray. Gray buildings, gray, emotionless people, not having their own opinion, mixing things and ideas, we are living gray lives. Gray can only be produced of black and white (nothing to do with skin color) and it can only produce itself. I wish we stopped being colorblind.

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It sounds silly.

Living with a trauma is not going to be easy, at least the first years. But it gets better as the time goes by. Brain has an amazing way to make you forget. The tricky part is that you may start creating new images and think of them as real. For example, you might forget those hands but seeing another persons hands could make you believe they look the same, when in reality they don't. If you still remember the hands, try to remember the differences between those and your friends hands. Start observing carefully your friends hands and you'll realize they are not exactly the same.
You could ask again your friend to cut his nails in a different way, make sure he/she understands how important it is for you, a true friend wouldn't say no to this, but I'm suspecting it won't help much. As you said, you could be triggered by situations that are different than yours. At the end you'll learn how to live with that, by understanding that just because something looks similar doesn't mean it'll have the same outcome. Just be patient, it's still early. and try to not think of it, you'll start forgetting and eventually, you'll be rarely noticing similarities and they won't bother you.

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i told my partner of five years that we needed to talk

Anonymous wrote:
He may not love you to the same extent you love him but he loves you enough ask you to stay.
It may just take him longer to feel the way you do. Maybe he needs to learn to open up.
Maybe he is expecting to just FEEL this overpowering love and so he misunderstands when he doesn't. Because he feels love but not the crazy love portrayed on TV.

Love is effort .

it's been 5 years! How long until she realizes that it's not going to happen?
If he realized that he doesn't see a future with you just because you're human and not every day will be shinny, for me he doesn't worth it. As far as I know, he should let you stay there and when you got the chance, just move out and move on. It's very harsh to say to somebody "you're not good enough to share a future, but stay anyway because right now I don't have anything better, and I feel a little bad because I'm part responsible for your situation with the job thing".
I don't know, maybe it's just me being cynical, but from my perspective noone should waste their time with someone who thinks they're not good enough. Oh! And of course you should keep your new job, you're not going to mess with your future just because your partner is an idiot.

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*types 5 paragraphs*

Nevermind wrote:
Some people like family its harder.

I was referring to people outside family.
We are always told that family is there for you no matter what, it's logical you expect older people to know the right way to treat you, but sometimes it just doesn't work. Most of the times though, it's their concerns that make them react in a bad way. They just don't know the right way.
If that's not your case, then you should just invest in friendships. We don't get to choose our family, but we get to choose our friends.
Do you want to share the thing you wrote and deleted? Over here I see friendly logical creatures and maybe they could give you some good advice.

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*types 5 paragraphs*

Ghhh I know the struggle. I understand it must be difficult for people to believe you, but if you stop trying to explain or express yourself, you won't find someone who cares anyway. All in all people are so unique, that if you tell the same story to 100 different people, you won't get two similar responses.
So, my advice to you is keep saying the things you need to say and don't worry about reactions. You'll probably get some negative feedback, but you'll find people who understand too. Don't even bother for those who don't understand.

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People like you based only on how much they can fuck with you.

You reminded me of a children's (not really), book I've read, called The missing piece meets the big O, by Shel Silverstein. You can watch it here:
https://youtu.be/Af-jZUR3ua0
When it comes to relationships I give everything I can, because I want to, expect nothing more than a smile, a hug and maybe a good word, and maybe I'm just an idiot because everyone around me always seem like they're trying to accomplish their goals and only care about themselves. I don't know, maybe you're supposed to only care about you, but I'm keeping faith and hoping I'm doing the right thing.

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I'm sick.

Lately I'm either sick or have allergies. I can't explain why, my diet is fine, I shouldn't be this way. The weather doesn't help at all because we have Saharan dust all the time and I'm sick of it! What I found out is that the allergy pills also help when you are sick (runny nose, sneezing). As said above, Vitamine C helps but a healthy diet is necessary and exercise.
So, today is your day! You should celebrate! give yourself a present or have some cake. Invite your cats to celebrate with you, they must be really proud their mom made it this far! You could make a list of things you'd want to accomplish, little things, like make or fix something in your room, go for a walk, cook something, read a book.. (suicide is not acceptable in this list!) It's the little things that make us feel better about ourselves.

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the government are making the frogs gay

Evansent wrote:

Kalinihta wrote:

BIG-AL-ONE wrote:

These gay guys still have the moves!
https://youtu.be/X_K6VqEQuaA

People laughing at this makes my stomach turn. It's one thing to eat animals out of necessity and another to enjoy watching them dead, suggesting they should put music to this video. Sure, these frogs feel nothing, but it's just weird to laugh at a dead animal.

Wtf that's just weird. Yuk.

What happens here is that some cells can remain alive long after the animal is dead. (This happens to every living creature). Salt contains positively charged sodiun ions which is what gives the nerves the stimuli to react. It's like they're getting a signal from their brain, except there's no brain, so they feel nothing.

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