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Domestic violence and abuse..

soco wrote:
Show him the door and tell him to never come back. You deserve your right to not live your life in fear. He either goes or you call the police. THEN DO IT!

Thank you, soco, but he all twisted it now and threatened to call the police on me when i hit him on Sunday. And he blocked me online; yep, he wrote that he was scared of me! And i think he should be as i really struggle not to smash his face and car now :(

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Domestic violence and abuse..

BuckingFastard(JN) wrote:
Get out of that relationship asap.
It isn't going to change for the better.
Be on your own again.

:( I dont know; despite all i miss him like crazy! Not the abuse, of course. But i never had anything like it before he turned out to be messed up :/

He blocked me now as i hit him on Sunday (I couldnt take it anymore how he was mistreating me); so zero chance of anything.

Feels like a black hole in my soul..

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Domestic violence and abuse..

soco wrote:
Where are you meeting these men? Stop doing that!! And stay the course with your counselling. It will definitely get better. Soon rather than later.

Lol, thanks; i attract an abusive a**hole from miles. They just know that they will have an easy job with me :/

This last one repaired my car..

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Domestic violence and abuse..

Jebus-Zeus wrote:
ive been alone the past 8 years, and its been the happiest of my life

Aaaw! Well, for me it was the most peaceful..

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Domestic violence and abuse..

Thanks, smiley. I was very happy alone..and maybe i again will be happy alone.. :/

I have had lots of counselling and help in the past 10 years, but nothing's changed and i havent changed - that's why im so sad.

I have arranged some sports with people who i dont know. My friends dont know me and it seems are not able or willing to either.

Just now im struggling to find motivation to carry on (and im not suicidal, just feel hopeless).

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Dearest Darling Mother

So sorry for your loss :(

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Domestic violence and abuse..

Thank you, Anonymous, i don't live with him..

And the same abuse keeps happening with different men. I don't have any family or friends who care. I have been trying to get help for years..but nothing's changed.

I didn't date for 8 years, and didnt want to date, but somehow allowed this one guy into my heart recently... it was all just lies and deceipt! :(

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My sister is crazy.

I am so sorry you are in this situation! :( Wishing you all the best resolving it. xx

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My sister-in-law passed away early this morning.

Oh, i am sorry, Padre. Condolences to you and your wife.

As Big-Al wrote, hugs, and extra affection and if possible, help with chores and the funeral arrangements; prayers for her.

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My phone was stolen at DBT.

Oh, so still not returned! :( so amazed you have faith in people that they will return it. I'd be like your mom on this one, im afraid. :( but hope that somehow you would get it back!

Wow, what security features these phones have! And did the staff take any action? Was it reported?

And the guy is indeed creepy; similar happened to me. Hug! Hope you are feeling better.

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