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The lord changes times and seasons, He removes kings and sets up kings, he gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to those with understanding.

I like the verse, thanks for sharing. What significance does it have to you, Jebus-Zeus?

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Would you be hurt by this?

I would be also offended at this. However, as Rockster160 wrote, maybe the guy did not intend to offend you.

If you avoid him, and he did not want to exclude you, i presume he would come asking you what the matter is, and perhaps offer an explanation and an apology.

If he doesn't come to reconnect, it still might not mean that you have been singled out to be excluded. But stay more distant and cautios, but not hostile.

Hope it will get all sorted and you can carry on enjoying your new job. All the best.

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Iโ€™m scared.

I am sorry he put you in this situation, music=life. Your instincts are probably good to tell you to be cautious. However, feeling scared might prevent you from seeing things right, and making the right decisions.

I would strongly recommend getting support from professionals. There are online helplines with stalking also.

I do hope that this guy will get the message and leave you alone, but being informed and prepared will give you an advantage.

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I need to forget about a guy..

Yes, Sully, thank you - you nailed it! It is exactly the sacrifices which I am not willing to make, which is the reason.

I love him like I never loved anyone, but we live on two different planets, and I wouldn't want him to sacrifice things he loves either, as we have no longterm future.

I know i need to forget for sure; i am just finding it very hard. :(

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I need to forget about a guy..

music=life wrote:
I understand completely. But you just need to give it time. It takes a long time to get over someone that was a big part of your life. Try and distract yourself by doing things. I find volunteering in my free time helps a lot

Thank you, music=life. You are right, it is going to take a long time.. :/ At the moment I still think about him all the time, and can't concentrate on anything else. But it has been just over three days since i told him i wanted to end this.

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I need to forget about a guy..

BIG-AL-ONE wrote:
#1 He's not going to change.

Thank you, Big-al-one! :) Yes, he couldn't even if he wanted - he's 9 years younger, and for me it is a big problem :/

..But not saying i myself am perfect! I actually got so many issues that i decided 8 years ago it would be better and safer for everyone if i didn't date. And it indeed was.. So regret i let him talk me into going on a date with him. :/

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I need to forget about a guy..

Lano wrote:
I'm sorry. Guys are terrible, in my experience. Makes me glad I'm a lizard, and not a guy. I'm assuming there is a good reason why you want to forget him. Just remember that and keep going. Distract yourself, get a hobby, meet new people.

Lol, haven't tried a lizard yet. :) Not saying he is terrible. He is all fine.. as long as I am not dragged into his world.

There are many reasons why I need to forget him, yes. Am just about to write them all in a list, and plaster it all over my room wall; hope that helps! Thanks, Lano.

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Suicide.

Oh, glad to read you feel better! It is not easy to live with peopel who don't support us or critisize us. It gets us down, our self-esteem gets low, and we start doubting ourselves..

It might be a while before you are able to move out. Is it possible to talk to your parents that you don't feel supported? Indeed, they should have payed more attention to you talking about suicide. But, on the other hand, it is not easy to listen to those things, and know what to say or do.

I hope that you will find a positive way forward. Try a gym just for a trial period. Many offer these options. Hope it works out for you and you will feel better. All the best xx

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life sucks.

I have battled negativity, abuse, self-hatred and suicidal thoughts my whole life. I still have a problem telling people my date of birth, as I consider it the most cursed day.. However, after over 40 years of battling, I am finally getting the suicidal thoughts under control (with help from up there).

For me it is my daughter who has been the biggest motivation to go on. And having an unsatisfying job which does not pay is very depressing, no wonder you lack motivation. But that could be changed! Is there anything you would like to do? Any hobbies which could be changed to a job? Would you be happy to be sefl-employed, to be on youtube etc? There are so many possibilities.. Hope you will find hope and the will to continue, and hope things will improve and you will feel more positive. All the best xx

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A Self Introduction

I don't remember you, but then I have an excuse - PTSD! ;D Welcome back, Sully, and look forward to your advise; i would so need that.. All the best xx

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