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My darling. I would say be careful. I had a co-worker expressing their feelings towards me in a respectful manner but I was surprised regarding his behaviour because everyone knows that I keep to myself at work. I'm 27 years old and he is 40 years old. This is 13 years difference and I am finding it difficult to even comprehend if I will give him a chance or not. From your situation, I would aim for 10 years difference as well as because you are a kind and open person. People will use this for their advance and the way he approached you is not appropriate. You can find other men that would treat you with the upmost respect. I wouldn't use the word 'attention.' I would say feeling validated and attractive. There is nothing wrong with feeling like this. You deserve better and someone to approach you and be clear with their intentions. I hope you have a lovely day and again please be careful as he is too old for you.

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suP PEoplE!

DocteurRalph wrote:
I never could do anything fancy with a keyboard. I can spend hours a day on a computer and yet I have trouble doing anything but turning it on and off... some days even that's a challenge.

Same

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Getting to know HelpQA family..

1. London, uk
2. Mixed heritage but I come from London, UK.
3. To build my relationship with the almighty jesus christ and trying to feel happy within myself

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Great piece of work

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question everything?

Definitely question everything. But obviously don't question the things that have no meaning or substance.

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Would a man love me for me and ignore the fact that right now in my life I am not financially stable?

Araz wrote:
1. Your job does not define your worth. You need to work on your self esteem.

2. If he likes you, it definitely won’t matter to him what you do to make a living. If it does, he’s not worth it.

3. Two years is a long time. It’s always going to be a “no” if you never ask... go for it.

I 100% agree with this statement. You will never know if you don't ask. There is always someone for everyone. Other people find them quicker than they though and others have to wait a little longer. You will not be single forever. That is what I tell myself on a daily basis. At least you are trying your best to find a full time job. Part time jobs are ok too. You have more time for yourself

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If I gave you

Yes is my answer.
If I gave my all to you;I expect the same.
If I respect and trust you; I expect the same.
We're one and we walk along life together. That's just my opinion. I do not want materialist things just compassion, loyalty and understanding.

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Is this weird?

Nothing is weird about it. You're attracted to him.

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ask me anything

Yorick wrote:

beautycomesfromwithin wrote:

NaCtHoMaN wrote:
@beautycomesfromwithin bit late on this, just to confide in your expertise, am i mental?

Its ok. No. I don't like the word mental. It has a negative meaning. I use the word unwell or distressed.

To answer your question: it's never too late to reply back. Your reply appears to coherent and logical. You're able to articulate your thought process in a stable manner. You're one of a kind. I would say you're stable in your own way. For one to be considered unwell then further assessment will have to be explored. 🙂

@beautycomesfromwithin maybe i miswrote the question.. do people think i am mental?

No, you're yourself and unique. :)

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ask me anything

NaCtHoMaN wrote:
@beautycomesfromwithin bit late on this, just to confide in your expertise, am i mental?

Its ok. No. I don't like the word mental. It has a negative meaning. I use the word unwell or distressed.

To answer your question: it's never too late to reply back. Your reply appears to coherent and logical. You're able to articulate your thought process in a stable manner. You're one of a kind. I would say you're stable in your own way. For one to be considered unwell then further assessment will have to be explored. 🙂

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