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music=life wrote:

verge wrote:
Sorry, I worded my response poorly, I meant to suggest that you figure out exactly what you want from him and tell him.

ahh good call

Yes! What exactly do you want, music=life? Do you want to break up soon?

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Just let me ramble.

It took me so much time for my meds to start working when I was on them. I think at least a month, everyone is different. My thought process was a lot like yours - Rambling to some, cohesive thought patterns and links to me.

Ramble away ๐Ÿ˜Š As long as I get to see the rambles, Iโ€™m happy.

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I talk a lot about my dad.

In addition to what others have said, I feel like I need to address this:

โ€œIt gets exhausting because I actively live for my dad. I cant stop my thinking that way. If dad wouldnt be happy with me I wanna change or die. I know that's wrong. I'm not some creepy pervert. I just wish I could be a great daughter. Whenni feel I'm a bad daughter or one he wouldn't like I feel he'd love me only if I was dead.โ€

This is concerning. If you determine your self worth by someone elseโ€™s standards, youโ€™re putting your life in their hands. You have said as much in this paragraph.

I love my parents. I value their opinions. I live, however, my own life. Can you say the same?

I have to ask - you say you CANT stop living this way. Have you thought about seeing a therapist? I think it might be helpful. I donโ€™t know that Iโ€™m qualified to untangle this Oedipal web. โค๏ธ

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Someone is visiting your town for the first time.

Aria wrote:
The local pub.

The food is awesome there and their beef schnitzels cover the entire plate.

Their chips could be a bit better - but I'm bias as I have a favorite haunt for those, too.

That sounds fantastic! Thereโ€™s a pub near us that serves schnitzel that my husband loves too. Iโ€™m not a huge fan, but Iโ€™m always down to try new foods.

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Meet my crazy kitten, Tyr!

Nevermind wrote:
I'm always one to appreciate a good cuddly kitten. Congratulations

Thank you!!! ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Who thinks we need to do a Help Reunion...

Nevermind wrote:
I mean it's a great idea but anxiety inducing for me.
Wont be able to hide in person. I'll feel a whole new level of.. I dont know.
Stressful but I bet worth it.

I relate to this on so many levels. โค๏ธ

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Someone is visiting your town for the first time.

NaCtHoMaN wrote:

Araz wrote:

NaCtHoMaN wrote:
mcdonalds

๐Ÿ˜‚ I might not take you up on that recommendation, but Iโ€™d join you if thatโ€™s what you really wanted to do lol.

well only if your in it for a laff

Iโ€™m ALWAYS in it for a laugh

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Thinking of moving to USA, i know its massive so am trying to figure out where would be the best place for me to move too.

I was born/raised in Northern VA, though, so I may be biased...

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Thinking of moving to USA, i know its massive so am trying to figure out where would be the best place for me to move too.

I recommend VA! Tons of hiking to do and itโ€™s proximity to DC and the demand for people in your field will enable you to get the salary you probably want. The housing is a little bit expensive but not ridiculous depending on what you want and where you want to live. Traffic sucks but the same can be said for any city really.

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Someone is visiting your town for the first time.

NaCtHoMaN wrote:
mcdonalds

๐Ÿ˜‚ I might not take you up on that recommendation, but Iโ€™d join you if thatโ€™s what you really wanted to do lol.

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