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Is being too nice a bad thing?

i wouldnt say you can be too nice, but you can be overly nice with no backbone which is often the issues as theres nothing not nice about telling someone 'No' if whatever they want is unreasonable, you have other things to do etc. By all means be the nicest person you can possiblky be but at the same time stand up for yourself and have self respect, if people are taking advantage of the fact you're a nice person then they dont deserve that kindness and in my opinion can somply f-off

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Ambiguous relationships.

i know what you mean. i was so happy to see help but i feel like ive slipped back into old habit of immidiately looking here for help instead of sorting things out myself. almost feels like ive regressed to my teenage self however that may also be because of the sticky situation i was in. but overall im glad to have everyone back and be able to feel like im helping people :)

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What's up people?

i dont think they will unless theres a good reason to. again everyones older and its just family atm really so everything is quite chilled out :)

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This is gonna be an unusual one, but appropriate for this site.

i have found a few enquiry forms you could fill out and send off. as a previous partner who, for the sake of pulling heart strings, has only just found out he has passed and is looking for answers but is unable to contact the family, there might be someone at the other end who is willing to help.

https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/forms/proni-enquiry
http://www.welfare.ie/en/Pages/Apply-for-Certif...

when im at uni ill ask around and see if theres anything that the forensic students have access to that might be helpful.

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This is gonna be an unusual one, but appropriate for this site.

J.N-Bucking wrote:

ProffVampy wrote:
sorry to be late, i havent read everything but i've read most of it. if you can get the right PI you can find out anything its just a case of finding them. though ill see if i can find anything with the name and dates youve given. might have access to something as a uni student for research purposes...often turns out to be helpful!

I would massively appreciate that!!

I have emailed a couple of PIs to see if they could help and a price.

I'm really skint tho

no worries, im digging. dont know much about southern ireland but im sure there will be something somewhere, just gotta find the right question to ask

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This is gonna be an unusual one, but appropriate for this site.

sorry to be late, i havent read everything but i've read most of it. if you can get the right PI you can find out anything its just a case of finding them. though ill see if i can find anything with the name and dates youve given. might have access to something as a uni student for research purposes...often turns out to be helpful!

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When the aftermath of everything crashed down on you...

i only have a flat with 4 rooms! plus the bedrooms nice and warm for me and him at night and he enjoys being the little spoon for bedtime cuddles. hes largely adorable but he can also the most evil little bugger xD Dorian Grey is a suitable name for him...

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When the aftermath of everything crashed down on you...

if i close the door he scratches through it. almost like he gets a cat period once a month and decides to be a pain in the arse! hes been better the past couple of nights

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Guess who's here??

yaaas! Welcome home!

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around.

Depending what drugs it is i suppose, some are much less ppwerful than others such as pot. If hes just stoned thenchances are he knows what hes doing and thinks youre right person to take this steo with. If it's shrooms or lsd then id wait until hes finished tripping and see if he remembers what was going on and then how he feels about it :)

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