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how to be human

Cool post, I am curious about what we have in common among those things with all the other beasts.

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Best Approach?

Glad to hear about your progress and your new man! Can you move somewhere with more opportunity to work as an assistant psychologist? Any way you could just start right out as a full fledged one somewhere?

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How to deal with bad anniversaries without spiraling into a depressive episode?

Hello, I am really sorry to hear all of that considering how you have always been so obviously kind and undeserving of any and all badness. I remember you being so nice that it was pretty hard to read, but to answer your question!!! Even if it's passed, I find the best way to get out of a really bad place or mindset is deliberately do something good for yourself. Exercise works best for me bar nothing, but having a bath and painting your nails or drawing a picture or telling someone to hug you can all help. Make an effort to be nice to yourself.

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Safe

If you swallow all your feelings
They'll surely make you sick
A case of indigestion
For which there's no quick fix

Emotional constipation
Is not a laughing matter
I can tell you my experience
Of resultant verbal splatter

When my lovely served me hurt
I didn't fuss or make a face
I swallowed all my fear and doubt
And said retroactive grace

Later, my sweet innocently grumbled
Angrily, my stomach rumbled, and out the word vomit tumbled!
It got all over him and me,
Covering our situation stickily
And I got tearful with despair

Lovely is patient and lovely is kind
He helped clean up the mess from my mind
Hopefully I won't swallow bitter feelings in silence
To later erupt in such verbal violence.


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no ones noticed but the american dream is missing, im afraid its been stolen by faceless men.

Oh they made it up in the first place, they can keep it!

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Answer truthfully (yes or no) to the following question: Will the next word you say be 'no'?

It's a trap!

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I'm sad...

Well I don't know either of you, but I love you and hope you feel better. I hope you find the energy to do something very nice for yourself, even if it's just wrapping your arms around yourself.

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all your problems can be summed up in 3 words, it dont matter.

And all the solutions to my problems that probably don't matter can be cured with love and gratitude. So glad we sorted it all out. Go team!

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Keeping in touch.

Mindhealer hasn't been to this new and improved help, but he's well. :)

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infamous quote of all time.

Yeah, people often have to work pretty hard to learn how to love others well and without hurting them.

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