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:) How are you all?

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I feel very nearly pecked to death by birds.

I recommend throwing bread at them. Shuts them right up!

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talking is so useless.

Also, people were designed to talk. We die in isolation :(

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Can't we all just get along?

Yes! What's cooking good looking?

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Is commitment a truly good thing?

I mostly agree with what the other posters said. Commitment is extremely important, but you have to commit to the right things. Usually if you find yourself failing over and over in a goal, it's too far ahead, there's a different thing you might need to hammer down first. Another thing to take a really close look at is motivation. You'll find that if your motives are really coming from the heart, it's easier to commit. It's easy to get shamed into certain goals in this day and age and kind of hold other people's standards or dreams as our own, it's apparent that we don't really want something the way we think we do if we keep sabotaging ourselves, but sometimes all it takes is examining inner motives to discover we were on the right track but for the wrong reasons and then use new confidence of will to achieve what we set out to do.

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:) How are you all?

Had a good day, but it's so rainy and chilly and lonely that I think I'll go hibernate until tomorrow. Don't know what your original post said, but I hope you're well and that lots of reasons to be happy come your way. :)

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It's my birthday!

Happy belated birthday! Glad you had a nice day :)

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Wow!

It's just the natural ebb and flow, just wait until we get to the Irish wake.

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I'm sad...

I love life. I want to stay alive and live well so so much.

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What do you all think about a woman dating a guy who is a little over 4 years younger than her?

soco wrote:

verge wrote:

soco wrote:
@verge forgot to mention she's like .... 12.

We youths probably all look the same to you ๐Ÿ˜‰

Well since I'm only 4, you're right. You all look ancient.

Well, guess we're all ********jailbait no two ways about it. Enjoy your legal, socially acceptable relationship anon!

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Anyone familiar with Indian culture?

Happens to be of Indian descent like he's always been a citizen of your country or seems like he just moved? I think your best bet is to just be your professional self. You can watch some Bollywood films on Netflix for fun, but I don't think you're going to be able to learn much about this man without spending more time with him. It would be worse if he thinks you are behaving differently toward him because of stereotypes about Indians than if he sensed some innocent ignorance about his culture. It's a big country with the second or third largest population, a lot of different religions, and a ton of different cultures, so it'd be really hard to average anything out assuming he even has strong ties to India and isn't born and raised American or something.

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