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What would you do?

Not wrong! Do what makes you happy!

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This guy I was best friends with birthday is coming up.

I have been in a tricky spot before when I wanted to show my friend care, but it just would have hurt him. It's hard, but good to respect how people wish to be treated, very especially if they're in a fragile position. I still get sad that I had to stop being friends with him, but sometimes it just can't work and that's okay.

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This guy I was best friends with birthday is coming up.

I would probably not make any contact just in case he's still vulnerable and it could hurt him.

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Last post before I go back into hiding.

I am sorta satisfied, but there are changes I'm constantly working for. I don't know if proud is exactly the right word, but I am thankful for the adventures I've been on, the progress I've made, my happy relationship that I work on every day with my lovely, and that I'm working toward my career.

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Let's talk about victim shaming.

I am so sorry that that happened to you. I am really glad that you threw a video camera at that guy's head, honestly I think we could learn more from that example and less from all the long silences. It sucks that things used to be so bad (and in some places still are) that girls feel like reporting abuse is pointless. But we need to be disabused of that notion right now. Fighting back immediately is important. Also, I'm really sorry somebody did that to you. It's inconceivably awful. Again, thanks for throwing a video camera at the blackmailer's head.

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Enthusiasm.

Thanks for sharing your spark of life! I find it delightful, I'm glad that you still post here!

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I dont think outside the box when the box has chocolate chip cookies in it.

Haha but what if they're anise cookies? It must be a healthy brain exercise to receive those and then have to figure out the best way to dispose of them.

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how many steps would it take to walk to the moon?

There's a band called Walk the Moon :)

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My little bro is getting married.

Be happy that you both are living the life you want to!

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i'm so devastated i dont even know what to say.

You are living with your family, everything sucks now, but it will be okay. Please trust me when I say that getting a good sleep and going for a walk in the woods can make a huge difference in outlook and put some things into better perspective. It is not the end of the world, but stress can make it seem like it is. Try some yoga, do something new while you have this time. You will bounce back!

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