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"I wish I wasn't a person"


That's just what I thought when someone got mad at me for something I did without any intention of doing anything wrong. I wish I wasn't a person, so I didn't have to make some stupid decision that upsets someone else. I hate feeling sad, because it's going to last all night, and when it happens, it's always the worst night that something goes wrong, when I have the most work to do and no motivation to do it.

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I'm so sorry that you feel sad. But maybe burying yourself in the commitments that you have and it will take your mind off of the sadness...?

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You’re not going to make all of the people happy all of the time. Think about it this way - have you ever found yourself unhappy with someone’s words or actions? I’m sure they were torn up about you being upset too.

Try to acknowledge and respect your feelings - it’s totally ok to feel sad or depressed sometimes.

Also - depression is a motivation killer. Try not to be so hard on yourself.

When you feel such a huge range of emotions, that’s what makes you human. So the bad stinks but you would never really appreciate feeling happy without the negative feelings. Just try to remind yourself that it’s ok to feel the way you do and that tomorrow will be a new day with different feelings and interactions. Take it one step at a time!

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Araz hit it dead on.👍

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My way of coping with stress like this is sarcasm, vengefulness, whiskey and telling people to fu*k off

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Best advice I received: if you fall down 7 times, pick yourself back up 8.

No one ever promised that life is always a bowl of cherries. Think of all the good times you have had in the past. You srill have more of those ahead of you.

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We have another hurricane coming this way.

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Agree with soco. Life is hard. Better accept that now. Theres no free ride for any of us.

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You are so valuable and worthwhile. Everybody makes mistakes, and that's okay. That's how people learn you know! Consider yourself one mistake wiser. You deserve to take a well-deserved break from the consequences of learning a helpful lesson, but you don't have to be immobilized (been there) if you can't afford to be now. Take good care of yourself because you deserve your unconditional love, no matter how mad anyone feels like getting. Also, a little communication goes a long way and may help heal a lot in a relationship if that's something important to you related to the upset. You may be surprised that talking can heal if the other person is willing to listen.

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One of the hardest things I've had to learn in life (or, in more accurate words get use to) is dealing with upsetting or displeasing others. Even if that specific person doesn't treat me as well as I treat them, there's this nagging entity inside me telling me that I need to please EVERYONE all the time.

And it's really hard to deal with, but caring for others instead of yourself isn't always the best thing for you. If you don't care for yourself, then you aren't really being your best person.

Just some ethical thoughts I've been mulling over for a while.

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