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My sister-in-law passed away early this morning.

BuckingFastard(JN) wrote:
Apart from being there to offer comfort, and helping with the practical side of what to do, there's not much else you can do.

Expect mood swings and deal with them accordingly.
Don't take it personally if she lashes out

It's quite natural to be angry at God because of things like this. I mean to have a long talk with God one day. I suppose, if I had infinite intelligence, I could understand why things are the way they are.

But with my finite intelligence, I think they suck.

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What happens after a death (practical not spiritual).

People are still ending up in paupers' graves.

There are procedures set forth by law to deal with the possessions of deceased persons who leave no wills or have next of kin.

Unclaimed bodies can also end up in medical schools for students to dissect them.

Others are revived, turned into zombies, and stagger toward the polls to vote Democratic.

;-)

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I finally finished my course that I have been working on for two years.

When you are a business owner, you have to eat, sleep and breathe your business 24/7!

But it's better than working for other people!

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Help.

I am going to be completely honest with you. Most likely you would not die. You would, however, end up as a half-brain-dead person that the nurses would set up in a chair, where you would drool constantly and have a blank look in your eyes for the rest of your short life.

And, if you succeeded, you turn all of your potential into worm food.

You have a voice inside your head telling you that you are worthless, that you will never amount to anything, that your problems are too great to solve, that death is the only answer. That's called depression. Millions of people have suffered from it. The biggest problem with people with depression is that they take no positive steps to cure their illness. Yes, that's right--cure! There are cures out there!

Right now you have a chemical imbalance in your brain that is producing suicidal ideations. That's like your stomach being messed up by some bad food. The chemical imbalance has to be righted.

You should call 911 and ask to be taken to the hospital.

You have a beautiful life ahead of you. You are needed. Even your pets know what a valuable person you are!

Do not disappoint us! We all want to see you out of this mental rut, and becoming the person you were meant to be!

Call 911 and don't regret it for an instant!!!

Do it now!

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My sister is crazy.

By the way, there is a legal term known as "constructive eviction." It means that while you were not thrown out of your living quarters, they were made so unbearable that you had to leave them--thus "constructive eviction."

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My sister is crazy.

My recommendation is to tell your sister that you are sorry that the two of you haven't gotten along, but if she wants you out, then you will temporarily move back in with your parents.

If she got the master bedroom, then she should pay 60% of the rent and the utilities.

From what I am reading, it appears that she wanted you to help her pay for the place, but that she really wanted to move in with her female friend. Putting the friend's name on the mailbox has a lot of undertones.

Personally, I would rather get a Coleman tent and live under a bridge than to be in the situation you describe.

For what it's worth, most roommate situations do not work out. Why? One person buys most of the groceries, while others eat them without paying or buying their fair share. One's clean and the others are messy. One respects the others, but that respect isn't returned. Sooner or later a roommate starts bringing in those of the opposite ***sex to stay, and then it seems like you are living in a barracks, with no vetting of the people who are living with you and resulting in a complete loss of control of your environment.

But as DocteurRalph says, if your sister doesn't start treating you right, tell her you want your name off the lease and that you are moving out. Then do it!

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I finally finished my course that I have been working on for two years.

How is the dog business coming along?

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My sister-in-law passed away early this morning.

These things are hard. I hope to one day sit in front of God and express my displeasure. I am sure I will learn something. But sitting here, on this mortal plane, I do not like the way our lives end at all.

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i said some horrible things about a good person.

What DocteurRalph said!

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My phone was stolen at DBT.

All's well that ends well!

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